Articles by Melissa Fuller
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Oral Panic
_I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for a year. We have great sex; I feel comfortable and love having intercourse with him. He is extremely gentle and tender with me.
But, sometimes I don’t like oral sex. Most of the time if he tries to go down on me I feel uncomfortable and nervous to the point where I feel I might cry. -
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Consequences of Public Sex
The question of consequences for public sex has come up a few times lately so I decided to check with three different sources: the police, Concordia University and a movie theatre in the downtown core—who, for reasons that’ll become clear, wished to remain unnamed.
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Searching for a Free Spot
Where the hell do I have sex with my girlfriend? Both of us live at home. My parents don’t know I’m gay and her family situation is complicated. We don’t drive, so cars are out. We’ve had some sex in private places in public, but it’s often really risky. And winter is cold in Montreal!
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Are You Experienced?
My current lover has had a lot of sexual partners before me. I, on the other hand, have only had sex with a handful of people.
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To Serve and Protect
I’m gay and it will be two years that I have been with my boyfriend.
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Two in the Pink, One in the Kink
_My girlfriend and I have a healthy, active sex life that is fully satisfying. However, we have tried to expand it in several ways, including blindfolding and sex in public. I am writing you to ask your suggestions of other mildly kinky things to try._
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Dirty Mouth
I’m a 24-year-old woman and my boyfriend won’t kiss me after I give him head. My mouth grosses him out after he finishes in it and I don’t know if it should bother me but it does. Is there anything I can do?
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Sustainable Sex
It’s official: the green movement has reached the bedroom. It’s no secret that being green has become a real concern, but you can tell people are taking it really seriously when the sex industry gets on board.
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The Great Blumpkin
Q: My boyfriend wants me to give him a blumpkin. Why—and is that clean?
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A Mark, Submission, a Brand, a Scar
I really like rough sex—being choked, smacked across the face, having nails dug into my body and being grabbed hard. I don’t mind bruising or marks left behind, but the problem is that it’s embarrassing when someone notices.
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New Year, New Sex—Four Sexual Resolutions
The New Year is here and I’ve decided to give you readers some Sex & Pancakes resolutions. These aren’t your “go to the gym” or “learn how to cook” resolutions. These are resolutions for a sexy new year:
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Royal Family Jewels
I was fooling around with a guy I kind of like the other night and things were going great, until I realized
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Hard to Deal
I have a really embarrassing problem. There’s this girl I like, and every time I’m around her I get hard! I can’t help it and I’m worried she notices. It feels like high school all over again. Is there a medication I can take to stop this from happening?
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Excuse or Infection?
I’ve been fooling around with this guy for about a month now, and everything was really great until he told me we can’t do anything for a bit because he’s clearing up a yeast infection. He also told me I should see a doctor to get antibiotics just in case. Is he trying to avoid sleeping with me, or can guys actually get yeast infections?
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Entry Denied
I think my boyfriend wants to have anal sex. Lately before we have sex he’s been doing this awkward thing where he pushes against my asshole with his dick for a bit before moving down to enter my vagina. The first few times I thought it was dark and he just missed the mark but now I’m pretty sure it’s on purpose. I don’t really know if I want to try anal but I think we should be talking about it if it’s on the table. How do I bring it up?
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The Tea Party
So, what’s the deal with teabagging? I mean, I thought I knew what it meant, but now I’m not so sure. Is it something people actually do? —Tea Time
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Busting Nuts
Getting hit in the crotch is pretty much a universal comedic gag, but
obviously the reality of being the receiver isn’t so fun. How bad can the consequences really be? Is it true a hit can kill you?
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The Skinny on Squirting
I’m sleeping with a guy and things are going great—except for one thing. He’s convinced he can make me “squirt.” He says that every girl he’s been with did but I’m pretty sure it’s not happening and I’m sick of feeling like something is wrong with me. Can every girl do it?
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First-Time Fisting
My girlfriend and I (a lesbian couple) talk about fisting sometimes and we both really want to try giving and getting it but I don’t want to fuck it up the first time and never get to try again. I’ve tried looking online but it’s hard to get through all the stupid forum responses. Can you tell me how to safely fist my lover?
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Sometimes It’s Hard
My boyfriend of one year and I don’t have intercourse.